He's Just Not That Into You《A story of idea rather than a story of

This is a book of what love should be not what it really is. And men suck.

I felt both disgust and amused by the crazy women's letters and Greg's answers. Yet we are always talking about those excuses with our female friends. Maybe its sound funny because of the American style. But the whole thing is not at all funny. It's sad actually.

Of course every women would like at least feel pleased in some weird circumstances the kind of men like Greg treat them like Queens. But this is just Greg’s faith. Or Greg’s idea of what a women’s faith should be. But as I think through most women have no faith. I have to admit that myself. Even my must idealistic friend changed to faithless wretch when she thought she find the man of her life. We tend to be easy-pleased and not-difficult when we face the one we love. So we feel sad and angry. We cry. We protested. We shout. We argue. We talk. We cry… We are scared. We lower our standards.

The most difficult part is Chapter 12. And I doubt about IF YOU DON’T BELIEVE GREG. Always 100%. Isn’t that a little weird? And do men always do what they said? The fact is most of the time they never did. Boys like to make romantic but empty promises when girls marvel at wonderful things. I’ll take you there. I’ll buy you that. I’ll give you all you want. Never keep them in mind. And the men? If they are not trustworthy then don’t put too much on them. We may have no faith but we have ourselves.

Love is sweet and sour. Taste it. Don’t get addict to it… Am I getting too ideal now?